From Both Ends Radio Show

Taking a Hiatus

2008-12-10T18:40:00Z

We had a great time at the auction back in November.

Since then we have decided to take time off to focus on various personal projects. We will still be updating the column semi-regularly.
Check back soon to find out what else is going on with FROM BOTH ENDS!

Thanks and have a great Holiday Season

Auburn Gymnastics Booster Club

2008-10-29T04:04:00Z

We will be appearing at the Muckleshoot Casino in Auburn, Wa, on Saturday, November 8th to be auctioneers for an event to benefit the children of the Auburn Gymnastics Club.

For more info call Jennifer Brandt (253) 691-3157

There will be no show this week.

From Both Ends Radio Show 23

2008-10-22T05:44:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Sports and relationships

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Build rapport through mirroring. Listen to find out how.

From Both Ends Radio Show 22

2008-10-16T02:57:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Movies that influenced or impacted us

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Love is greater than pain.

Guest:
Hypothetical John

From Both Ends Radio Show 21

2008-10-08T04:01:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Happiness

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
TV in the bedroom? Listen to find out if that is good or bad.

Guest:
Hypothetical John

From Both Ends Radio Show 20

2008-10-01T05:58:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
First dates

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Do you pat someone's back when you hug them? Listen to find out if that is good or bad.

From Both Ends Radio Show 19

2008-09-24T05:14:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Healing from infidelity

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Do you bathe at night or in the morning? Your answer tells a lot about yourself to your partner. Listen to find out.

Guest:
Steve Harris, recovery counselor

From Both Ends Radio Show 18

2008-09-17T05:42:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Love

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
The is a difference between self-care and selfishness.

From Both Ends Radio Show 17

2008-09-10T05:14:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Blended families

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
When you encounter your partner being triggered during a conversation, rather than fuel the trigger, ask, "What's going on for you right now?"

From Both Ends Radio Show 16

2008-09-03T04:07:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
How to tell if your parter is cheating.

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
There should be a balance of self and other. There needs to be a balance in your relationship between your own needs and the needs of the relationship.

From Both Ends Radio Show 15

2008-08-27T05:31:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Parenting tips

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
The most damaging thing to a child of divorce is when the parents mistreat each other in front of the child.

From Both Ends Radio Show 14

2008-08-20T05:14:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Creating an adult toy website business

Guest:
Lee Williams, LeeWilliamsConsulting.com

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
The four stages of eroticism are
1. A sense of anticipation builds sexual tension
2. Overcoming ambivalence; connect yourself to the experience
3. A sense of power; who feeds the interaction?
4. A sense of prohibition; the willingness to do something out of the ordinary

Write down favorite erotic movie scenes and note the 4 factors of eroticism.

From Both Ends Radio Show 13

2008-08-13T05:59:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
The Dos and Don'ts of Internet Dating

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
1. See how your potential partner describes their previous relationship. That is a good judge of where they will be in yours.

2. When you go on a first date do something that is physiologically stimulating so your date will have a positive experience.

From Both Ends Radio Show 12

2008-08-06T05:54:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Communication

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
There is a difference between complaints and criticism.

From Both Ends Radio Show 11

2008-07-30T04:34:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Premature Ejaculation

From Both Ends Radio Show 10

2008-07-23T04:09:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Emotionally Focused Therapy

Music audio clip:
Smokey Robinson and the Miracles, "I Second that Emotion."

Guest:
Michael Clifford, Certified Emotion Focused Therapist

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Intent doesn't necessarily equate to impact. Intent can be misread or misconstrued upon reception.

From Both Ends Radio Show 9

2008-07-16T02:37:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
The Pinup Angels

Music audio clip:
The Andrews Sisters, "Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy."

Guest:
Miss Kitty Baby and Red Rocket of ThePinupAngels.com

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
If you find your relationship is in a rut, spice it up by inviting another person into it - a sexual therapist.

From Both Ends Radio Show 8

2008-07-09T04:00:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Promoting a Sex Positive Culture

Guest:
Allena Gabosch, Executive Director for SexPositiveCulture.org,
and one of the Commissioners of the Seattle Commission for Sexual Minorities.

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Before you say, "No," to your partner's request, be open to other options. Think about how you phrase a negative response.

From Both Ends Radio Show 7

2008-07-02T02:29:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
How to Cheat on Your Wife and Not Get Caught

Music audio clip:
Louis Armstrong's, "Your Cheatin' Heart."

Guest Co-host:
Dr. Betty Martin

Guest caller:
Maurice Brooks

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day (phoned in by Dr. Gomes from New Orleans):
Write down on a posterboard all the things that you are grateful for throughout your life, no matter how small. Do not focus on any negatives; focus only the blissful, positive things lest they be forgotten.

From Both Ends Radio Show 6

2008-06-25T03:14:00Z

The Topic Du Jour:
Naturopathic Medicine - low libido in women

Music audio clip:
Aretha Franklin's, "You Make Me Feel Like a Natural Woman."

Guest:
Dr. Serena McKenzie, ND

serena@drserena.com

www.drserena.com

Dr. Gomes' Pithy Tip of the Day:
Freshen up your relationship; update the photograph of your partner in your wallet first.